Friday, December 17, 2010

The one about hard things

On Thursday November 11, I looked over at Dawson and saw him making a very strange face. His eyes were crazy, he was stiffly holding out one arm and he was shaking. My insides twisted.

No, no, no, I though, Not you. No.

Halle had so many thousands of seizures back in 2007, so I KNEW what I was seeing but I did not want to believe it. I tried replaying it in my mind, talking myself out of it . . . He was just doing one of those silly things babies do, I am paranoid because of Halle's seizures, I must be seeing things . . . But deep down I KNEW what I had seen.

I told Kevin via text while trying to not jump to conclusions and fall apart. Suddenly, I felt like I HAD to get out of the house ASAP to fight the panic. I loaded the kids in the car and took Kevin dinner at work. I kept asking him, "Do you think I'm crazy???" I wanted him to tell me I wasn't and yet I wanted him to tell me I was.

The next couple of days went by and I saw several other episodes. I kept pushing the thoughts away. No that wasn't a seizure. He's just going to the bathroom . . . He's just twitching how all babies do in their sleep . . . but with each episode it became more and more obvious. I knew I was getting closer to having to face it. On Thursday, a week after the first episode, I made an appointment with the doctor.

Saturday, when Kevin was home, he saw an episode for the first time. I didn't want to ask but I did, "So . . . do you think that was a seizure???" When Kev said "Yes," I fell apart inside.

It was real.

Not my baby. Not Dawson.

Monday came and I took him to the doctor. It was like stepping into a nightmare.. I was trying sooo hard not to let the old emotions from 2007 tangle up the present but it was hard. I felt ok until Dr. Mower said, "We'll get him on Fast Track up at Primary Children's Hospital . . ." Even the thought of taking my sweet, beautiful baby to that place- the place where we tortured my other baby, where I felt like I was in mourning for my daughter who was right in front of me- was just too much.

Not just the fears of the seizures themselves, but everything that comes with seizure disorders. Socially, emotionally, mentally, behaviourally, the medications with their crappy side effects . . .

I took Dawson into the lab for the blood work. Holding him down as he screamed, remembering the days of holding a screaming Halle down for the very same reason . . . the ache was intense. The nurse was so sweet and meaning to comfort said, "You can do this." I wanted to yell, "NO! I CAN'T! I'VE DONE THIS BEFORE AND I TELL YOU, I CAN NOT TAKE IT!!!"

Dr. Mower and I talked a lot about Halle's past. He said, "Tell me about your other son, Drew. Has he ever had any signs of seizures?"

"No. We've never seen anything with him," I said.

The next day. Tuesday, November 23:

I was trying my best to pack for our Thanksgiving trip to Vegas but I had the flu and wasn't getting much done. I finally gave up and went to bed. Unable to lie still while there was SO much I needed to get done, I got my video camera out and let Dawson crawl around me so I could catch seizures on video for the doctor. Sure enough, he had a few episodes. As I turned off the camera, Drew (who had fallen asleep next to me) "woke" up, his wrists bent, arms went stiff, his eyes glazed and he laughed/grumbled for maybe 30 seconds. I watched him in disbelief.

"Drew? Drew . . . are you awake? Drew can you see me?"

After several seconds, his eyes came into focus, he smiled at me and then immediately went back to sleep. As I lay there confused, he did the same thing. I decided I would video it if he did that again. Sure enough, he did and I recorded it on camera.

OK, now I KNOW I am losing my mind.

I called Kevin and told him I was crazy, because I thought I just saw Drew have a seizure!?! What are the odds that while video taping one child having seizures, you'd capture another having his first? It was too bizarre.

The next day was a crazy one; Kevin had a dental emergency, almost broke his thumb, I was still sick from the night before, there was supposed to be an awful storm & record bad Thanksgiving day traffic . . . but we got on the road and arrived in Vegas around 2 AM.

Over the next several days on the trip, I continued to watch Dawson's seizures - maybe 5 or so a day, and MANY, MANY more at night- and kept a very close eye on Drew. Each night as Drew fell asleep he repeated what he'd done on Tuesday night. Kev and I didn't really know what to think. They definitely LOOKED like seizures, (especially because each time his left eye would twitch) but it was just too strange. We were still in shock about Dawson . . . how could this be happening?

Saturday night I sat on the couch chatting with my cousin Haley (who's house we stayed at on our trip) and holding my two boys. Dawson would have a seizure, then Drew, then Dawson, Drew . . .

Kevin was studying in another part of the house. When he came out, I asked him to stay and watch the boys with me, to see what he thought.

He said, "Honey, I didn't want to tell you this but I saw Drew have a seizure while he was awake today."

All Drew's episodes had been while he was asleep so far.

"Are you sure???"

I felt sick. Kevin said that while we were in the gym, Drew was playing with him. Suddenly he stopped running, looked right toward Kevin without REALLY looking at him and laughed the same hollow laugh the he did in the sleeping episodes.

We went to bed and I kept my boys with me. Drew in one arm. Dawson in the other. I stayed awake all night counting seizures, unsure of what kind of strange unreality I was in. I knew I would have to fall asleep or Kevin would have to drive as I slept on the long road home, but there was no sleep in me. As long as I live, I will never ever forget that long night.

Or the next day . . .

Kevin woke up in the morning with the stomach flu. He was so sick. Damon and Ora were driving home too and we decided to drive together since Ora was sick with it too. Bad timing!! To make it worse, we hit a blizzard just a few miles North of St. George. So the drive should've been 5 hours but it took us over 10. 10 hours of slippery roads, with cars spun off the road on both sides. Sick hubby. Sleep deprived. Not just one but 2 of my babies having seizures behind me (Drew had 7 on that drive . . . the first ones I'd seen while he was awake). Choking on my tears the whole way home.

Waves of emotions kept coming the whole way. We almost didn't have another baby because of Halle's intense ordeal, since the only "reason" we had for her epilepsy is genetics. (Kevin's sister, Stacy also started having seizures at the age of 3 and struggled controlling them for 14 years) We waited well passed the age of Halle & Stacy's seizures start of epilepsy, and Drew flew through the years without a single sign of anything.

Why now? Why both?

I fell apart over and over thinking that if Drew's had started earlier we wouldn't have had our Dawson . . . my little sunshine.

WHY ALL of my babies? WHY, WHY, WHY?? What am I doing wrong?!? Could I have made this happen . . . ???

We pulled into Provo at almost 11 PM. Everything was buried in snow. If I can't get in my garage tonight, I will officially lose my mind, I thought. I didn't even want to look and see how much snow we'd have to shovel. We got closer, and there it was. HOME- with a perfectly shoveled driveway and walkway up to the door. One of my sweet angel neighbors had done that for us. Words can not tell you how heavy my heart was that night and how much it meant that someone had done that for us, unaware of what was going on and all.

Heavenly Father was aware. We'll be ok. I cried again.

I took Drew the next day to the doctor, exactly a week after I'd been there with Dawson. I told Dr. Mower I felt like he must think I was nuts, like one of those mothers who makes up stuff for attention. We tried to brainstorm anything that could've started BOTH boys' seizures. He got Drew's name added to the Fast Track list for Primary Children's hospital (PCMC). I (again) held down my boy for blood work. He was so brave. I told him if he counted to 25 it would be all over. He cried/screamed/counted to 25 and broke my heart.

Not my Drew too. Please.

The next week was intense for us all. Trying to get in PCMC (who lost our names on the waiting list- TWICE!?) was so frustrating. Counting seizures every day, all day. Drew usually having more than 10 and +triple that at night. Dawson still about 5 a day, +triple that at night also. Most nights I slept with the boys. Not because it helped or anything, but because I didn't want to be away from them. People told me I need to get my sleep . . . but what mom can sleep better just hearing the seizure and doing nothing?

Not this mom.

We FINALLY got the appointment scheduled at PCMC for Tuesday, December 7th. I tried to not go nuts waiting for Tuesday.

I chatted with my Aunt Jana who lives a few minutes from PCMC before going. I thought maybe if we had to kill some time between tests maybe we could visit rather than sitting in waiting rooms. Before she knew any of this was going on at all she said, "Oh, sweetheart, do you need anything? Because we're ready for you if you do. I had the feeling that I needed to get our guest room ready. So I washed the linens and the baby crib is ready and everything. Do you need to come by?"

Heavenly Father was aware.

Tuesday finally came and I took my sister Ora with me for the extra hands and support. We left at 6 AM and got there just in time for Drew's first test; the Echo cardiogram.

Perfect heart results.

Next was Dawon's appointment with the neurologist. Then Drew's. We watched the video of seizures I had caught on our camera, but we didn't really need to. Drew had one right in front of the doctor. A bittersweet blessing that they were happening often enought to be able to see them first hand.

EEG's were next. Dawson's was first and he had 2 seizures when he was hooked up (another blessing) so they were able to confirm that they WERE seizures and tell us they were coming from the left side of his brain. (Halle's came from her right side). Drew had 2 seizures while he was awake, fell asleep and had 4 more. His also showed seizures coming from the LEFT side of his brain.

MRI's were the next day. They both had to be sedated. Having two kids there was tricky. I was holding Dawson for his IV while they wanted to start Drew's IV. "Wait for me, I have to be there for him." But then while holding my Drew (as he screamed but was soooo brave again counting/screaming to 25 as they tried several times to get his IV in) they wanted to started Dawson's sedation. Again, "Wait, I have to be there" and etc.

Around 5 PM when the boys were waking I had a melt down. Total. I got a message on my phone from our dentist. Halle had an appointment earlier that day that a friend had taken her to for me. "I'm sure you've got the treatment plan by now. For the pulpotomy and broken filling, your portion will be 14 hundred dollars . . ." I was bouncing a cranky baby and trying to wake up Drew (who WOULD NOT WAKE UP) when I got the message. Not one of my best moments, I tell ya. The emotional and physical stress of the last couple of days/weeks . . . that message put me over the edge. A nurse came in to check on me. "Oh honey! You need some help!" and thank goodness she noticed. She helped take Dawson and got another nurse to help Drew stay awake. All I can say is I'm pretty proud that we got through those days. Yay. And, thankfully, in all the chaos, I heard the message wrong. Our portion was $14, not $1400. (Relief!) See what happens when a mom doesn't get her sleep? Starts hearing all sorts of things. Lol.

I have to say that the hardest part of our days at PCMC though was going home. I had talked myself through the days saying We'll just get to Tuesday when we can get help from the Doctor . . . Going back home to "normal" which was so far from normal, with nothing changed was super overwhelming and hard. Super duper hard. No answers, just "See you in 3 months. Choose from these medications and decide which side effects you are more comfortable with, call if you need anything."


I felt (feel) very unqualified to handle the day to day situations with the boys. I didn't want to be admitted for days and days either . . . I just wanted to feel like I was going home better prepared and ready for what was coming. Didn't happen.

Results came from MRI showed both boys having normal results. No tumors, lesions, etc. Awesome.

The only hard part that came with this news is knowing that with all the normal test results (blood work, echo, MRI's . . .) there are no answers. When you don't know what is wrong, it's hard to know what to fix. So as happy as we are about them, it is hard anyway.


So here we are. Kevin's swamped with finals and hardly ever here, which is killing him wanting to be here for us. I worry about him so bad. He's living on hardly any sleep and no breaks. He's tough but he's gonna break at some point. I'm trying to feel the Christmas spirit, if only for the kids. And trying to not worry about the future for all 3 of them. Trying.

Basically, we are mainly trying to maintain normal for them here as best as we can. There are tough moments but we get through them. My friend, Vyki used to live by the saying, "I CAN DO HARD THINGS." I saw it written on a tile by her bed as she was dying. If I ever saw a human being pushing through and doing the hard things, and doing them well, it was Vyki. I'm trying to remember.


Drew's epilepsy is a rare kind. Gelastic epilepsy. Supposedly only 1 in 1,000 children with epilepsy will have this kind, and only a few new cases in the country per year. He stops what he is doing, holds his hands in fists (sometimes he might clap or slap his legs over and over), his left eye twitches, and he "laughs" for aprox 60 seconds. It isn't his normal laugh, and I can tell in his face that he isn't being funny. Lately he is having a cluster of 3-8 of these seizures within a few minutes of each other, and then he'll have a break for an hour or maybe two. He is normal in between the episodes. He is completely conscious and can semi communicate through them. He will hear if people laugh and him and can be very shy and embarrassed afterward. This continues day and night, though more frequently as he sleeps.

Depending on what he's doing when they come makes the biggest difference in how bad they are. In a crowd he'll be more embarrassed. If he's climbing things (he's ALWAYS climbing something) he can get hurt. So far he's only fell off the counter once. Another time he was holding Dawson and dropped him. The other day he was climbing on the stair railing and went into one. Halle called me in a panic as she was holding him from falling off. Another time we were coming out of Target and I noticed Drew was gone. I looked around and found him frozen in the cross walk, hand in the air, "laughing", and unable to coordinate himself to get out of the way of all the cars. Another night he threw up in a seizure - unable to control his body so it came through his nose and everything. What an oxymoron to puke and "laugh" through the whole thing!! For him to be totally aware, it was awful. I can't imagine how that would feel.

We continue to have more of these types of things every day. Today's adventures: Drew was putting away the silverware for me and happened to be holding a sharp knife as one started. He repeatedly jammed the knife (I got it away from him pretty quickly before he got hurt) into his pants, "laughing" and watching himself without being able to stop. Then tonight we went out to eat, Drew accidentally rammed his nose into Kevin during one and got a bloody nose.


One of the hard things about these Gelastic seizures is how badly they put me on edge all day. Anytime Drew (or even Halle) laughs I automatically think "seizure." I hope it doesn't take too long to be able to enjoy my kids' laughter again.

As Drew fell asleep just a few minutes ago, one woke him up and he was mumbling/laughing. Then he called out/still seizing . . . "Mom . . . Mom . . . I . . . need . . . to . . . tell . . . you . . . I . . . need to . . . tell . . . you . . . I . . . love . . . you . . . so . . . much."

Dawson's have remained about the same from the first one I saw. Often falls over, mild shaking, stiffening on one side, going limp on the other, makes a crazy face, eyes roll around slightly, lasts around 30 seconds. I am not sure how conscious he is, but he smiled at me once in the middle of it, so that makes me think he's at least partially there. After each seizure he will lose the muscle tone in his neck for about 2-3 minutes. So his head will drop, he'll pick it up, drop, pickup, drop, drop, drop, drop . . . This is the hardest part for me to watch. A few nights ago the "head drop" went on for over 10 minutes and I was about to go to the ER. I. Do. Not. Like. It!!!

The other hard part of Dawson's seizures is it frequently wakes him in his sleep. So I feel like a mom with a newborn some nights, up every few minutes or so helping him get back to sleep. Randomly, he will have a normal night. I don't know what makes the difference. He is used to 12 hour nights, and then two naps throughout the day. So most days the naps aren't happening or are very short, and he has interrupted sleep in the night. Not so good - for either of us.

So many of the feelings I am having bring back the 2007 memories so fresh. I remember vividly the night I felt like Heavenly Father chose the wrong girl to hand this. It was 4 AM or so and I was lying in bed with Halle, feeling so unable to be what she needed in a mom. I didn't know how to make her better, I didn't know how to stop being sad . . . I knew I just wanted the best for my daughter and did NOT feel like that was me. Her personality and behavior was so different. I would stare at her and ache and ache, missing my innocent, fun baby girl. I knew she was still her, but my brain couldn't connect it. I felt so guilty for this. I was overwhelmed and wishing I could give up. Halle woke up out of a deep sleep and said, "Mommy? I picked you. Heavenly Father helped me, and I picked you." Then she turned over and went back to sleep.

If I hadn't been there and heard it myself, I wouldn't have believed it happened. I remember thinking, "Did she really just say that to me?" But I felt so much comfort from that. I still do.

Heavenly Father is aware. He understands my thoughts, my feelings, loves and helps me anyway. He hears me.

Tonight as I type and type my feelings it's hard to process all of this has happened in just barely over a month. For the first couple of weeks we didn't want to tell anyone. I didn't want it to be real and I wasn't ready to answer questions when I was in denial. Now, however, most people know and we are ready, even wanting to talk (sometimes). It helps knowing people care and it helps Drew so people can know how to react in a way that will make him worry as little as possible.

I would be surprised if anyone actually reads this far since it's so long (this is more for the record than anything) but if you do, please keep us . . . KEVIN, HALLE, the BOYS, and ME . . . in your prayers. We could ALL use them. We will get through this. We can do hard things. Kevin and I are beyond blessed to have our 3 amazing, strong, beautiful, wonderful angels.

Heavenly Father is aware.

Saturday, November 13, 2010

The one about editing

One thing I've learned about taking photos....editing is awesome.

See how everyone in this preschool picture is looking at the camera and smiling?

Well the reality of it is...

All but two heads were put in.

If I'm taking a group photo of kids, I will start on one kid and wait for the smile. . . ."Click."

Next face . . . wait for the smile . . . "Click". Etc.

Until I know I've got one smiling picture of each kid.

I love Faith Hill for putting up this photo about editing.

See the thinner arms, shiny skin, waist, under arm fat gone, hair and under eyes lightened, etc etc.
I was talking with my friend who I love soo much but she gets so discouraged reading blogs. People traveling, happy, living these beautiful exciting lives.


There's been times I have done the same thing. But then I remember-

There's always editing.

Thursday, November 11, 2010

The one about Bailee's Baptism

Halle and bff/cousin Bailee

My sweet neice Bailee was recently baptized.

Isn't she beautiful?
And I have to be a little proud here cuz I made her dress :)

Well, technically Ora found the original dress online but it was HUGE on her and looked totally different. Mondo sleeves and a simply horrifying pioneerish collar, etc. But the fabric was perfect. . . So I took scissors to it and remade it the whole thing. I'm flattered that Ora trusted me to just start cutting - especailly without a pattern. It was scary! I sewed that entire little shrug by hand to get it just right. So happy with how it turned out. It fit her perfectly.

Don't ya love the hair peice that Ora made? So perfect.


Wednesday, November 10, 2010

The one to drool over

Amazing-Home-Made-Giant Eclairs
1 c water
1/2 c butter
1 c flour
4 large eggs
1. Preheat 400
2. Heat water and butter to a boil in saucepan. Stir in flour, reduce heat to low. Stir briskly over low heat about 1 min or until mixture forms a ball, remove from heat.
3. Beat in eggs until smooth. Drop by apox 1/4 cupfuls about 3 inches apart onto ungreased cookie sheet.
4. Back 35-40 minutes or until puffed and gold. Cool about 30 mins. Cut off top third of each puff, pull out any strands of soft dough.
5. Fill puffs with Cream Filling (recipe below) and replace the tops.
6. I like to top with that shell hardening-toffee-chocolate sauce.
7. Cover and refrigerate until serving. Store leftovers in the refrigerator.
Cream Filling
1/3 c sugar
2 T cornstarch
1/8 t salt
2 c milk
2 egg yolks, beaten
2 T butter
2 t vanilla
Mix sugar, cornstarch and salt in saucepan. Gradually stir in milk. Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly, until mixture thickens and boils. Boil and stir 1 minute. Gradually stir at least half of the hot mixture into egg yolks, then stir back into hot mixture in saucepan. Boil and stir one minute, remove from heat. Stir in butter and vanilla. Pour into bowl. Press plastic wrap on filling to prevent a tough layer from forming on top. Refrigerate at last 1 hour until cool.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

The one with a distraction

Dawson and I are feeling a little under the weather this morning. So we're just chilling in our pj's & I'm shopping online for Christmas! (yay!)

I'm not getting much done though. I wonder why???

He's decided this morning that crawling is AMAZING. He could barely inch around yesterday... today he's on the move.

Watch out, everbody!

And this has nothing to do with anything, but as I was looking around on my laptop I found these old pics. I took preschool portraits of this little girl a few years ago...
Is it just me or does she look a lot like the girl "Lucy" in Narnia?

The one about Halloween 2010

For Halloween this year. . .

Halle was Cleopatra

Drew was an army man

And Dawson was a biker.

My fave accessory being that tattoo. :)
Though the collar was a close second.
Check out the gigantor-pumpkins Kev grew in the garden

and the pumpkins we carved

The kids got a big thrill out of our dropping spider. Honestly, it freaks me out. Doesn't matter how many times it drops on my head... yikes!

The kids went trick or treating

while Dawson enjoyed his version of it indoors

And for the grand finale of the night, Drew took on a giant-dueling-something-or-ever.

With gusto.

I am so lucky to be your mom Halls, Drewbie & Daws. Love you guys.

Monday, November 1, 2010

The one with 2010-11 school pictures

I don't think I EVER had a good school picture taken. Ugh!! Year after year I could barely get myself to look at them without wincing.

So, she def didn't get her photogenic skills from me.


First Grade

Friday, October 29, 2010

The one for this weekend


Tuesday, October 26, 2010

The one about Dawson's blessing day

So many of our family's significant events go unblogged. Yet there are a few worth going back and mentioning.


Dr. F was blessed the last Sunday in May. It was a wonderful day. Before church Kev, Halle, Drewbie and I dressed our little guy in his blessing suit. We all ooed and awwwed over his sweetness. He wore a very specail outfit given him by "Grandma Vyki" who had passed away only a few days before.

It was bittersweet to think that had she been alive, she would've been too sick to come. Yet with her on the other side, she was probably able to be there with us.

He was sooo sweet and handsome that day.

Blessed by his Daddy :)

After the blessing we met with family and friends for a potluck lunch at the church's pavillion. I intentionally made sure not to plan anything at our house and kept everything simple so it was a stress-free and memorable day for us. Should have done the same thing with the other kids' blessings. It was awesome.

Today (five months later) I finally found some time to take pictures in his suit. He doesn't look the same as he did but that's ok. Better late than never. Besides he is definatley just as sweet and handsome as ever.

Here are some of my faves:

Love his turtle smile sooo much!


Friday, October 22, 2010

The one about Dawson's many mini photo shoots

I wrote most of this post back in May but never finished uploading the pictures until tonight. Life is crazy having three kids, I tell ya. I am ignoring all the other things I could (and probably should) be doing. Blogging and going through old photos sounds much more fun. Besides, I deserve a break, right?

Btw, I love these pictures so much now. He was so tiny... I can still remember how he smelled when I see these. Mmmmmm. I love my babies.

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I have been taking pictures of newborns for several years now, and they are my FAVORITE to photograph. Ever since I got pregnant, I've been soooooo excited to take MY baby's pictures. I thought I'd really be able to go to town.

So, I set up the photography equipment in my living room when Dawson was less than a week old. However, crazy-hectic day after day went by and I literally didn't have ONE spare moment to do a photo shoot :( (We were feeding/pumping/taking back to the doctors...around the clock. Plus all the usual mom stuff) It was soo so so frustrating, to have my own beautiful baby but no time to capture his sweetness on camera- the way I have for so many other babies.

Three weeks went by & I still hadn't found a minute. I was so depressed about it. I felt desperate about the precious newborn-time that was flying on by, unrecorded. I decided to keep my camera nearby and start taking a photo here, a photo there, whenever/wherever we were . . .

I never did fit in a full photo shoot so the pics are not what I had in mind, but they are still beautiful and I'm grateful for what I got. And (yay!) I finally got my photography equipment out of our living room. . . after a month of tripping over chords, backdrops and trying to keep the other two other little monkeys from destroying it all.

In a way, it's kinda cool because each picture has a memory that will remind me of what was going on in those crazy weeks after Dr. F came.

For example:

The next two pictures were taken at 2 am. I will remember that Kev had just got back from work and I REEALLY wanted a pic with his hands in them. I waited and waited for him to come home that night, holding Dawson who was undressed ready for pictures, keeping him warm in his fuzzy blankie. Kev sat at the kitchen table, half asleep as I shot as quick as I could so we could get to bed. We were so beyond exhausted- I was near tears. Call me crazy, but these pictures are/were a big deal to me. They were worth it.

This was taken one morning when Kev was running late to work but I asked him to stand by for a minute while I put Dawson on a shelf. Kevin's nearby-protective hands are edited out of the photo. In the rush, I didn't have time to dust the shelf and it just felt wrong putting him on that dirty thing. As soon as Kev was out the door Drew and I gave him a bath.

The few with me in it were shot by my sister in law Tiffany when she came by to visit one day. I had a total breakdown while she was there, lots of Post Partom hormones that only new moms can understand. (How embarrassing!) Thanks so much, Tiffy! For taking the pics, and for being there when I lost it. It meant so much to me.

That same day Tiff tried to help me take pics of Dawson on this scale. However, he immediatly pooped all over her and then we got the giggles, so none of those pictures worked. This one was taken a couple weeks later... the last (and one of the only pics) shot with the black backdrop that was left out for nearly a month.

After the pic was shot, I pushed down on the scale until it read 7 lb 11 oz (his birth weight), and then edited that into the picture. Daws struggled gaining weight for the first 6 weeks or so, and this original picture read just over 6 lbs.

This next one of all 3 kids is actually 3 separate pics, edited into one. Don't look too closely! ;) I assure you there never was a moment that was as peaceful and easy-going as this pic makes them look :) Gotta love editing. It was a really late night and everyone was ornery...especially Drew. You'd never know it, look at those innocent eyes :P

This was on our kitchen floor and he is in a wooden kitchen bowl that used to be my mom's. The whole house was a DISASTER. Halle had a couple of friends over who were all ooing and awwing over him, who were so amazed that he was small enough to fit in that bowl. The rest were taken on my bed. My black blanket as a background. Standing on the bed, right over him, I held my camera in one hand and my table lamp in the other (for a filler light). I'm sure I was quite the picture myself. lol.

Anywho, this post I am sure is boring to everyone else, so I'm just writing this for me. I think I'll wanna remember what was going on behind the scenes. I didn't have time to write in my journal or anything... and this kinda makes up for it to me. Sorta sums up the craziness. Or starts to anyway.